And she said…”No more f*ck boys”

Years ago, late at night A DM came through our IG…

A woman I didn’t know reached out about hearing the positive experience her friend had at the studio, but she was there, at 12 am talking herself out of an opportunity she so deeply desired.

She spoke indirectly about her self worth; not being sure she could put out the money (but she could) and not being sure she was ready (but she was)

In my opinion… it was the perfect timing.

Now, I don’t talk to potential members at 1 am anymore, but for some reason that night, I stuck with her.

What if the feminine is effort? Even when you’re scared. What if the feminine is Presence.

Possibility?

To see each other? In moments when we can’t see ourselves.

That night I chose to find a new edge in my capacity without totally breaking myself (I knew I could sleep in the next day lol)

I am not saying we need to take on other peoples shit. Infact, I’m saying we don’t need to fucking do that shit anymore.

I am asking us to check in, when it’s so easy to check out. I’m saying that movement, and community, and a place to chance it all.. changes lives.

5 years later, she has a career she loves, no more fuck boys, a baby on the way in a healthy relationship, and I have literally watched the comparison, scarcity and lack RINSE out of her system through movement and community.

And also devotion.

And that’s worth it to me. That’s what built this place during a pandemic and keeps people coming back for more.

So do it. Take the chance. Do it in fear. Worry about the money even though you know you have enough.

✨Maybe stop worrying about the money, too.✨

And stop counting yourself out, when you have the answers, while remembering you also don’t have them, too.

Xoxo
Emily Rose